1.  If you loved me you would know what I want (what I mean).

2.  Saying you can’t listen to me right now means you don’t love me.

3.  You can’t understand since you don’t feel the same way.

4.  You know what would make me happy but you are purposely

     not doing it.

5.  You know how I feel about that issue and should avoid bringing it

     up.

6.  If I hide my feelings and go along as though nothing is wrong,

     things will get better.

7.  If I disagree with you, you won’t love me.

8.  Giving in for now and not making waves will get us through this

     rough spot.

9.  The future of our relationship rests on being able to resolve this

     argument now.

10.  If I don’t fight back, you’ll get the best of me.

11.  Because we have a difference of opinion, we are incompatible.

12.  I’m right and you’re wrong.

13.  Rather than bringing up the problem now, I’ll wait and see what 

       happens.